© Llay/Rossett Parish 2023
Llay Parish
Wrexham, North Wales
RIP Valentina
We have learned of the death
of Valentina Velikanova in
Sumy parish. As is the custom
she was buried the day
following her death. Her health
had been failing for some time.
As many of you will know
Valentina had been bed ridden
from a very early age and we
have been supporting her
medical care expenses. Please
pray for her.
Sumy
In early 1997, the St. Francis Parish Advisory Council (PAC) was discussing what our parish should do
to mark the Millennium. Amongst various suggestions, one was to form a link with a parish in the
Former Soviet Union. As one of our parishioners had previously worked in USSR, and had contacts
with the parish in Sumy, in northern Ukraine, it was unanimously agreed to proceed by inviting a
group from Sumy to visit us
LINK WITH THE ANNUNCIATION PARISH, SUMY, UKRAINE
In early 1997, the St. Francis Parish Advisory Council (PAC) was discussing
what our parish should do to mark the Millennium. Amongst various
suggestions, one was to form a link with a parish in the Former Soviet
Union.
As one of our parishioners (John Fernee) had previously worked in USSR,
and had contacts with the parish in Sumy, in northern Ukraine, it was
unanimously agreed to proceed by inviting a group from Sumy to visit us.
Fr. Adrian sent an invitation to them, and we told them that our objectives
were to:
•
Form a link with a parish in the Former Soviet Union as part of our
preparations for the Millennium.(2000 years of Christianity)
•
Form a link with the Sumy Parish as a practical way of helping them to
feel part of the worldwide Catholic Church
•
Deepen our faith by understanding how the Faith survived under
Communism
•
Learn how they are rebuilding the Church in Russia/Ukraine
•
Share our parish best practices with Sumy e.g. Guided Prayer,
Children's Masses etc.
•
Explain to them the threat to the Faith from materialism
•
Understand how we can best help Catholics in Russia/Ukraine in
general, and the Sumy Parish in
particular
•
Prepare the way for a possible return visit by several Llay/Rossett
parishioners
By the end of 2008, six Llay & Rossett parish groups have visited Sumy, and
seven groups from Sumy have visited our parish. Close links and friendships
have developed between our parishes and between particular parishioners.
We have fundraised and donated many thousands of pounds to help the
Sumy parish and their local orphanages and Special School. In that time,
Ukraine has emerged from the shadow of Communism, and the situation in
Sumy parish has dramatically improved also. Their church is beautiful, with
wonderful acoustics which do justice to their singing.
I could say a lot about Nina Chernyavskaya and Katya Kovrizhenko, about how the Merciful God called them, and
how He supports and strengthens them. Nina Chernyavskaya herself is a small and valiant woman, without a
husband, she copes with 19 children. She is the mother of a foster home. All her children are active parishioners.
They are altar servers, they clean the church, and work in our soup-kitchen. The
older children repair the tables and benches. All the homeless reach out to her. For
her, they are all her children.
Katya, a delicate woman, brings up a daughter alone, is without work. She is
outwardly restrained, but always tries to thrust a bigger piece of bread, and give
from herself gruel or soup to our homeless.
Our priest Fr. Stanislav gives us a lot of help. Through his care, repairs were done
and a heating system installed in the (church) basement where our soup-kitchen is located. He chats with the
homeless, prays with them and for them. We are eternally grateful to him for his patience, wise and speedy
resolution of problems, for his understanding and support.
We pray with the homeless before lunch, teach them to read the Our Father, Hail Mary, we teach them to pray for
others, to love people. Indeed they are all God's children and God loves them all.
Through love, kindness and a calm attitude we get through to the hard hearts of the people living day by day, even
hour by hour, we give them clothing, we dress their wounds, save them from lice, give them vitamins and simple
medicines. It is easy to love people living far away. But it is not always easy to love those living around us. There
are hundreds dying from hunger, and hundreds dying from loneliness and lack of love.
Our work calls upon us to see the suffering Jesus in each person who is in need, hungry, ill and naked. We are doing
God's work. He provides us with the means. If He does not give us the means, it signifies that He does not want us
to work. In which case, why worry?
We had a surprise when, last spring several people came to us after lunch and thanked us for giving them support in
the winter.
Our 'nurslings' are growing, and we are growing in spirit, learning to live in joy and truth and active effective love.
Mother Teresa asked people, to let everyone who comes to you, leave you better and happier.
At the end of our work, after tidying up the kitchen, we pray the chaplet to Merciful God, thanking God for His love.
We ask the Holy Spirit to give us strength and health to serve the poor, and revive in them the dignity of God's
children. We pray for our priest, because much depends on priests. Also we pray for our friends and benefactors,
that the Lord would not close their hands (Ps.145).
Our dream is, sometime in the future, with God's help, to create a shelter for the homeless where they could spend
the night, wash themselves, change their clothes, and receive medical help.
We request prayers for this intention. But we know very well that everything necessary starts from ourselves with
God's help.
Message from Oksana Danko – “What the Sumy/Wales link means to me…”
My husband Yaroslav and I were baptised in 1991 in the Catholic church (we were 29 and 27 respectively). There
were about 8-10 members in our parish at that time, it was something like the first Christian communities or maybe
African parishes, where missionaries come. We had Polish nuns, our first priests were Poles or from Poland. We were
in close connection with our priest and each other, discovered many new things. “Catholic” means “universal”,
“ecumenical” and this universality I have realised precisely in Wales, to which we were invited to in 1997.
For example, we didn't speak English well, but were able to understand Masses, because the structure of it was the
same as in Ukraine and the entire world. It was so interesting to communicate with traditional Catholics, most of
whom attended Church from their childhood, celebrated Christmas and Easter, led a normal religious life, as it would
be in our country if it were not the communist regime which had deprived us of all this.
In Wales we got to know about the role of parishioners in the life of community, how they took part in it, what were
relationships between parishioners and priest and many other things.
It was very important for us as for new members of Church and inspired us a lot.
It was also a very important experience for us to visit your country, because we were separated from another world
for such a long time, in a country which tried to educate an animosity against the West. During our visit we
discovered another world, and the people of this world. We got to know what it is the English (or Welsh) hospitality
and were deeply touched with the care and attention which were devoted to us. That was one of the most nice and
precious impressions in our life.
I think it is very important for us to continue the link with our parishes. It's always the possibility to learn something
new from each other, to get a new experience and maybe to change something in our life. This link is alive because
now we have friends in Wales and we think of each other and pray for them, and I am sure the time we spend
together is full of blessings and good fruits.
Love and prayers, Oksana
An article written by Rita Sergienko, to explain the origins
and working of the Sumy Soup-Kitchen:
The Providence of God in Action
At first there was Mother Teresa of Calcutta. What she, that small woman,
does for love of Christ was a revelation to me. She gave up everything for
the sake of a life of poverty and service to the poor. Next there was a whole
year of prayers and reading everything which I could find about Mother
Teresa. For a whole year nothing happened.
Then, at the beginning of August 2002 I prepared food: soup, gruel, bread
and tea, and went where the homeless usually gather. I fed three people.
They did not even thank me. I went several times more with pans of food,
but no-one turned up.
Our parish priest Fr. Stanislav thought about this undertaking
sympathetically and suggested something along the lines of a distribution
point, and blessed our work. We distributed announcements about the
opening of a soup-kitchen for the homeless. Several people started to come.
We brought tables and benches into the churchyard, we fed them, listened
to them, and prayed. Gradually parishioners began to help prepare food.
The older people responded first.
But my heart kept silent. I could not and did not know, what and where to
buy, where to take the basic equipment for the soup kitchen. I very much
fretted and worried. And my heart kept silent.
By the time there were two permanent volunteers and things were well in
hand, I understood that Merciful God was doing everything for me. I was
only a witness of Merciful God in action.
Our volunteers are Nina Chernyavskaya and Katya Kovrizhenko. We have
worked without a break from 12 August 2002. (Note: Both Nina and Katya
have visited our parish)
The first lunch cost 6 grivnia and 40 kopeks. Now we spend 60-70 grivnia
per week on lunches every Tuesday and Friday. Our menu is simple, but
nourishing - soup or borshch, gruel, tea and bread.
Sumy Soup Kitchen September 2022